Updated: Jul 24
Eckhart Tolle wrote: “being at ease with not knowing is crucial for answers to come to you ”.
Being at EASE, with not knowing, is CRUCIAL for answers to COME to you.
Beautiful. Powerful. True.
For those of you who have spent sleepless nights hoping for a more meaningful, enjoyable & authentic life: this is for you.
I think it's safe to say that at some point in our existence we've all come across people that just seemed happier than us & made us feel a little jealous. In those
moments we can't help but wonder how they do it. Their joy, way of expressing themselves and life choices are inspiring. They seem free, confident & genuinely excited about their path. They are not really living in fear of anything but rather follow their values & aspirations.
Deep down you know you have that spark too because of course you're aware of your preferences, passions and personal talents unique to you, yet life doesn't seem to give you the time and space to actually go ahead and be the best version of yourself in every day life. Truth is, most of us operate from a fight or flight mode and often feel like we're not doing what we want and as the years go by we get further away from our spirit's desire.
We’ve been brought up believing that life is hard and that you've got to hustle in order to make it regardless of what your intuition is telling you.
Maybe this works out well for some, but I’ve heard enough around me to know that it doesn’t quite resonate with the majority of us out there - this fast-paced & inauthentic way of living is not serving us and more and more people are waking up to the fact that living their most magnificent lives is possible right here, right now. It's just about re-adjusting, right?
The easiest way to get closer to what you desire might be to proceed by elimination. I guess you could see it as a process of unlearning. It's about decluttering your life and being honest with yourself: think less with your mind & more with the heart; have faith that you can make a change.
Now, practice listening to your voice rather than everybody else’s.
Start to notice what you don’t want in your life: the type of job that doesn’t resonate with you, attitudes from others that you disapprove of, opinions you can’t stand to hear, lifestyles that you find uninspiring: the VIBES and VALUES that have nothing to do in your sacred space.
Once you begin to delete all the stuff, you’ll naturally connect with your inner guidance and make decisions, engage in activities and relations just right for you!
Your true self will shine and you will know what you really want to LIVE, BREATHE and SERVE.
Life will get abundant with you and send the most relevant opportunities your way, put the right people on your path and anything else in between to help you create your universe.
This doesn’t mean that your adventure won’t come with its share of pain and challenges since that's part of the experience too, but once you get to vibrate to that higher frequency you'll have a whole new flow of peace, gratitude and purpose running through you.
You’ll be in this beautiful place where: you. are. the. creator. of. your. life. period.
You will connect with others genuinely and perhaps in the process even inspire loved ones & people around you to tap into that life force too. We all have a mission here on Earth, something our being longs to be and do. So why not allow ourselves our full expression.
Let us choose: abundance over scarcity, cooperation over competition, choice over passiveness, and joy over fear.
And to circle back to that Eckart Tolle quote earlier: it's absolutely ok to not always have a clear plan before us and just feel a little uncertain about how we want to show up in the world. What's so important is to allow space for that: as the answers, ideas and drive to go forth will come to you if you are open, trusting and ready to reveal your true self to yourself ;)